American Sign Language (ASL) is a rich, visual language used by the Deaf and hard-of-hearing communities in the United States and parts of Canada. Like spoken languages, ASL has its own grammar and vocabulary—including family signs like “uncle.”
If you’re learning ASL and want to know how to sign “uncle,” you’re in the right place. This article will walk you through the sign for uncle, when and how to use it, and answer some common questions about family-related signs in ASL.
How to Sign “Uncle” in ASL
The sign for “uncle“ in ASL is made by using the “U” handshape (your index and middle fingers extended, other fingers folded in, like the letter “U” in ASL fingerspelling) and making a small circular motion near your forehead.
Step-by-Step Instructions:
- Form the “U” handshape with your dominant hand.
- Hold your hand up to the side of your forehead—this is the masculine area of the face in ASL.
- Make a small circular motion (usually a few small twists or circles).
- Keep your expression natural and neutral unless adding emotion.
That’s it! You’ve just signed “uncle.”
Why Is the Sign Near the Forehead?
In ASL, many male family signs (like father, brother, grandfather) are signed near the forehead, while female family signs (mother, sister, aunt) are made near the chin. This helps distinguish gender in family terms.
So, “uncle” is signed near the forehead, while “aunt” is signed near the chin—both using the first letter of the word in ASL fingerspelling.
Tips for Learning Family Signs in ASL
- Practice regularly: Repetition helps build muscle memory.
- Use a mirror or video yourself: This helps you see if your handshape and placement are correct.
- Learn signs in context: Practice signing sentences like “My uncle is funny” or “Do you have an uncle?”
- Watch Deaf signers: Authentic usage will help you understand how the sign appears in natural conversation.
Related Signs
Here are a few related family signs to expand your vocabulary:
- Aunt: “A” handshape, small circles near the chin
- Father: Open hand, thumb touches forehead
- Mother: Open hand, thumb touches chin
- Brother: “L” handshape from forehead, joins another “L” hand
- Sister: “L” handshape from chin, joins another “L” hand
These follow a similar pattern—starting from either the forehead (male) or chin (female), using the first letter of the word.
Cultural Note
ASL is more than just signs—it’s a cultural and linguistic system. Family terms in ASL may be used differently depending on the context. For example, in the Deaf community, close family friends may be referred to as “uncle” or “aunt” even without a blood relation, much like in spoken English.
Also, while English speakers may say “my mom’s brother,” in ASL, you might simply sign “my uncle,” as the meaning is often clear from context.
FAQs About the Sign for “Uncle” in ASL
Q: Can I fingerspell “uncle” instead of signing it?
Yes, you can fingerspell U-N-C-L-E, but it’s more natural to use the actual sign when one exists. Fingerspelling is typically used for names or specific terms that don’t have standard signs.
Q: How do I sign “great-uncle” or “uncle-in-law”?
ASL doesn’t always have one specific sign for every family relationship. You might sign:
- Great-uncle: Sign “uncle” and add a clarifier like “great” or use a descriptive phrase like “my grandfather’s brother.”
- Uncle-in-law: Sign “uncle” and then fingerspell “I-N L-A-W” or sign “married.”
Q: Is the motion for “uncle” clockwise or counter-clockwise?
There’s no strict rule—most native signers use a small, circular motion, either way. The key is the handshape and location. Don’t overthink the direction.
Q: Is the same sign used for paternal and maternal uncles?
Yes, ASL uses the same sign for both. If you need to clarify, you can sign “mom’s brother” or “dad’s brother“ using possessive signs.
Q: What if I’m left-handed?
Left-handed signers simply use their dominant hand (left hand) for signs like “uncle.” The motion and handshape stay the same, just mirrored.
Final Thoughts
Learning ASL opens doors to new ways of communication and connection. Starting with everyday words like “uncle” helps you build confidence and context. Whether you’re learning ASL for family, education, or personal interest, keep practicing—and don’t be afraid to sign in real life.
Remember, the sign for uncle is simple: a “U” hand near the forehead in a small circular motion. With a bit of practice, it’ll become second nature.
Summary
- “Uncle” in ASL = “U” handshape, small circular motion near the forehead
- Gender signs in ASL are placed differently on the face (forehead for male, chin for female)
- Practice helps improve fluency and confidence
- Fingerspelling is optional but not preferred when a standard sign exists
Want to learn more family signs in ASL? Explore signs like cousin, niece, nephew, and more to round out your vocabulary!

